She wants me to talk to her - does she like me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
well, ill start out by saying i am 15 and im a guy with this huge crush on a 14 year old girl. im very confused because it seems that she likes me, but on the other hand, it seems like she doesnt. well one day i was skateboarding and i saw her with this guy that seemed to be 17 or 18 and all bulky, good lookin, and they were on the swings riding together and sort of luvy duvy.
so heres my first question, do i have to be good looking for someone to like me? well after that, she came up to me, because i probably would never start a conversation because of my shyness, and looked me straight in the eyes and asked"how come you never say hi to me? it makes me sad" so i of course say im sorry and that ill say hi in the future. but she has been doing things like that for a while now.she wanted me to walk her home. but i wasnt at the park unfortuneately. but im wondering if it could be anything serious as if she actually likes me.
This girl came directly up to you and says she wants you to talk to her. She wants you to walk her home. These are not the actions of someone who hates you!
Someone liking you has NOTHING to do with being handsome or not handsome. All of those are really short-lived things. Human bodies change INCREDIBLY over the years. It's far, far more important to be with someone you like, who makes you happy. Happiness is an eternal trait.
I would definitely make an attempt to talk with her more. She's taken the risk and made the first step. You can at least meet her half way!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com