Girls On the Beach
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I am 15 and have never dated. I have friends who are girls. My question is how do I meet girls at the beach? What if they are with their parents? or friends?
This is a REALLY bad place to meet girls. Girls who are on the beach are already feeling exposed. They're just getting used to having these new body parts and how they're on display. They are very sensitive about people (and guys especially) treating them badly because their bodies are not perfect. It's a very stressful situation.
Many people haven't dated by 15. On the other hand, friendship is THE most important factor in any good relationship. So if you have females which are friends, you're way ahead of many guys. Don't think of these girls as "just friends". Think of them as potential partners that are in the beginning stages. That friendship is an amazingly powerful bond. Work on the friendship. Be there for them, learn to listen. Learn to interact well with the girls. Maybe one of them will grow into something closer. Even if it doesn't, the experience you build with the women is incredible valuable. This kind of "how do I deal with a girl" information is something most guys would kill for. And when you do meet a girl that you could be a boyfriend to, you'll understand how to be her FRIEND first. Which is the most important thing in any relationship.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com