Should I hide my feelings or confront her and tell her exactly how I feel?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Well my problem is that i've fallen for a girl that i have been friends with for 3 years.She just broke up with her boyfrend ,and this leaves a nice gap for me to move in.However i don't know what to do.If i make a move and she doesn't respond like i expect her to that could mean the end of our friendship.You can understeand that it would be really hard for me to even talk to her if she doesn't respond with the same feelings i'm sensing.what shoul I do?Should I hide my feelings or confrunt her and tell her exactly how I feel?I cant even sleep anymore,this is really hard for me.Thanks
P.S:i'm 19 and she's 20.
You only go around this world one time, so take a chance on love!
If you present your feelings to her in a sensitive manner she is very unlikely to want to lose you as a friend.
One way to do this is to say to her "I have been developing feelings for you and now that you are free I thought I'd let you know."
She may feel it is too soon to start another relationship, but at least you have let her know where you stand.
-- from George
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