I desperately want to save my marriage
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My husband of 11 years wants a divorce. It's my fault....well, mostly. I had an affair.....for the usual reasons. I was lonely. We had drifted apart. I will not try to justify my actions. There is no excuse for what I did. For a few weeks he was trying to forgive me and put it all behind us. Then, abruptly he informs me that he wants a divorce. He has recently started "talking" to someone and he wants to move on. I feel like my life is over. I desperately want to save my marriage. I will do anything to get him back. I have pleaded.
I'm not sure how to go about this. People have told me to play hard to get, but I need to regain his trust.
He says he still loves me, he is just hurt. He says it could never be the same.
What do I do.
You two are prime candidates for a marriage counselor.
It seems to me that both of you are very close to each other but he is having a hard time dealing with your affair. A professional counselor could help you find your way back to each other.
I hope this all works out the way you want!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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