But today she told me she has a wild side and with our one year relationship she never did anything wild
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
This is my fourth time, nothing has changed since last week i still see her just about everything and talk more than once a day on the phone. But today she told me she has a wild side and with our one year relationship she never did anything wild. She said before she moved here she would do wild things like grind with random guys and "flash" her guy friends. But here the town we live in she cant because i am her only friend but three weekends ago she went to a guys house from school and flashed him and his cousin. I am not a wild person, i am happy staying home watching tv so i dont know if she is one for me but i still love her plus she lives 1 min away and she was my first girlfriend. I know it will be very difficult to find somebody new because i went thru high school without date number one and now i dont go to school cause i graduated and i dont have a job so i see it has "whats going to be different now?" If i do end it with her its going to be hard to forget her because she is so close. She told me i will always be in her heart but she wants to be wild and she cant to that with a boyfriend. So i want her back as my girlfriend but i cant at least for awhile. Another problem i have is i am a jealous person when she told me she flashed those people it made me mad and i wanted to know if anything else happened because she doesnt have to tell me because she isnt my girlfriend. Do you think i should just give up or continue being friends? But the only bad thing about staying friends is i am her only friend and thats a reason she broke it off so i dont want us to get into same schedule like we had when we were dating and that will just upset her more. But without me she has no one and she told me today "i dont want to be with my mom on fridays and saturdays anymore." But without her and i hanging out she will be alone with her mom. The problem is the more we hang out it makes it just like before when we were dating but if we dont hang out shes bored and cant be wild.
You are caught in a bad situation and I feel sorry for you!
Your choices aren't very good. You could try to get back together with her as a boyfriend but then what happens to her desire to be wild? You could split up with her but that would hurt you. You could be friends with her and see what happens in the future.
My guess is that you should choose the last choice and hope for the best.
Hope this helps!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com