is he just saying that he loves me so that I will have sex with him?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have known this guy for four years and we have recently gotten together. We have been together for three and a half months and he tells me he loves me. Is it to soon? And another thing when ever we talk he is always talking about sex and things involving sex, is he just saying that he loves me so that I will have sex with him? or do you think it is the real thing. Oh and we have never had sex. Advice
Trust your heart.

If your heart is not buying his words of love then he is probably just trying to have sex with you.

If your heart does believe his words, then he loves you.

Don't do anything that you don't want to just because a boy says he loves you... boys can be very tricky.

Good luck!

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