After 4 months, she began to pull back, miss dates, not return phone calls
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
My girlfriend and I were set up by a matchmaker, and we hit if off from the start. We spent every day for months talking on the phone or going out. We met each others families. We looked at wedding rings, talked about dates, and looked at houses. After 4 months, she began to pull back, miss dates, not return phone calls. Then she had 3 family tradgedies. She came over, we were intimate, said she would be back next week, then next week she called and said she was done, it was over, and it was a timing thing. I asked if I was the man for her, and she said no. I asked if she met someone else, and she said no. I begged and pleaded, and got nowhere, it has been six weeks, and she still screens my calls, so I stopped with the romance, and the calls, and the letters, but I WANT HER BACK!
The odds are that you are not going to get her back.
So you have to face that realization (which I think you have done).
What else is there to do now... my advice is to wait a month or two and then reapproach her gently and ask her how she is doing. She should be willing to talk to you at least a little.
Then who knows what might happen. But, remember the odds are against any of this coming out your way.
Wishing you the best of luck,
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com