i cant make things weird between any of us because we spend so much time together
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my brother are really close. We hang out with each others friends all the time. His good friend that he hangs out with all the time (*________*) has a girlfriend, but he told me he doesn't like her. She spends more time hanging all over my brother than him. I like (*_________*) and i think he likes me. He acts like it all the time. What do i do about (*________*), my brother, his girlfriend, and my family. My family likes him and they think he's cool, but i don't know how they would react to me dating my brothers friend. Can you help me out because i cant make things weird between any of us because we spend so much time together. !THANKS!
First off the boyfriend/girlfriend have to break up before anything else can happen.
There is not much you can do but wait to see if that happens. You can tell the guy that you like him. You can tell the girl you like him. You can tell your brother you like the other guy.
Before getting your family involved, you should wait until they break up. At that point, you can just casually mention that you think the guy is cute so your family won't be too surprised if you two become a couple.
You shouldn't tell anyone that you REALLY like him a lot. Just tell them that he is nice and you like him.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com