everything was going fine until i really realized that he wasnt giving me any time.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
my ex and i recently broke up. we were together for 3 mths and he was my first. everything was going fine until i really realized that he wasnt giving me any time. i understand that he is a busy man but still. i became really nagging and began to complain a lot which bothered him. i regret breaking up with him because now i realize that no matter how busy he was, he would always call. i got really used to talking to him in the morning while getting ready, driving somewhere or whenver he got a chance. i was very happy with that. i have tried talking tohim and he says we;ll talk about it when he gets a chance to sit down and discuss it with me face to face. i told him that i woudl change but he doesnt wnat to hear it. i really want to convince him to come back to me that i will be the same person that he met and fell in love in teh begining. he still calls once in a while to see how i am doing. any advice??
There are signs that he is at least willing to have a conversation with you and that is the best sign you can have at this point.
Prove to him that you have changed by specifically stating that you had a problem with the time issue but you have now realized that it was inappropriate. Be very respectful of his time and don't take too much of it when you are talking with him. That will clue him in that you are learning your lesson.
Hopefully this will work out!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com