when i talk to him about it he says i am over analyzing everything
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
ok so me and my boy friend have been together for 8 months now and i really do love him. and he says he loves me and i believe him. every once in a while he can be the best boyfriend ever but then i get caught off guard but this guy i dont even know who he is. he'll ignor me when were in the same room to talk to everyone else. and although i have never been a jelous person i find myself becoming one now, i am always worried about him flirting with another girl or i imagine him with his ex.. its so weird. this attitude of his used to peek through every once in a while but now its every single day. when i talk to him about it he says i am over analyzing everything. what should i do.. any advice please.
Tell him you are not overanalyzing things that you are just telling him how you feel.
If he's not willing to listen to your problems then he isn't much of a boyfriend. Tell him his behavior is hurting you and making you be jealous. Jealousy is a nasty habit and can ruin a good relationship.
While he is cleaning up his act, you should work on getting rid of jealousy. The way to do that is to confront jealous thoughts and feelings and telling them to go away. Do this often enough and they will go away.
Hope things work out!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com