i told him 3 months ago what i did wrong in the past and he now has came to the decison that we should break it off
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
okay me 19 yrs old and my boy 20 yrs old have been together for 3 years he moved to college and i began feeling lonely and finding comfort in drugs and sex with 4 other men. now i have lived with him since sept and havent done anything wrong, but i told him 3 months ago what i did wrong in the past and he now has came to the decison that we should break it off b/c he thinks i will repeat my actions. but the truth is i have no desire anymore b/c im with him and have grown up how can i prove to him that i wont make mistakes anymore and he wont regret staying with me. i really love him alot.
All you can do is to rediscuss this with him and try to convince him that you won't do it again.
Emphasize that you didn't do anything wrong when you were with him. Tell him you love him very much and couldn't do it again. Tell him you have matured from the experience and are more grown up now.
Keep telling him this and maybe he will change his mind.
I Hope So!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com