I don't know how to tell him no
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months now, we were friends for a long time before that. He is the first person i have ever loved, and done anything intimate with. At first we were just kissing...then touching... but now we have sex almost every day. I do like doing it with him, but every day is just too much, and i am only 16. I don't know how to tell him no, and sometimes i come up with excuses not to have sex with him. If i don't do it with him it seems like he gets angry and doesn't want to touch or talk to me. We both are crazy about eachother, and we're with eachother every day all day...Sometimes he even gets jealous when i go to my girlfriends house instead of being with him. I just don't know how to talk to him about limiting our SEXUAL time together. Please help!
Compromise is a sign of a good relationship and that is what you need.
Explain to him sometime when you are just talking that you don't feel like having sex so often and make a suggestion about how many times a week feels comfortable for you.
If he is unwilling to talk about things, then you have an even worse problem on your hands. I hope he is agreeable to talking.
-- from George
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