I want to prove to her how serious I am
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I looked though the questions but there are so many and couldn't find one that answered my question.. not saying there isn't one but I am tired of looking.. Anyways..I am in love with my ex. We broke up because I felt I was not ready to treat her the way she deserved to be treated. I took about 6 months off from the relationship and learned tried to learn more about me and I did. I am really surprised at how much confidence and how many realizations I have come upon. Well now I feel ready and am 100% sure I can treat her the way i should. I told her how I feel but she is scared because I hurt her by breaking up with her. I have been thinking and I want to prove to her how serious I am...so question: How can I prove my love to the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. How can I make her believe me?
Prove it to her by being attentive and reliable.
Reliability is probably more important in the long run since that is what she mistrusts in you now. Trust itself is important.
So the answer is to work hard on those qualities in your personality where she has doubts. Make sure you do something every chance you get to prove that you are trustworthy and reliable And, pay just enough attention to her so she doesn't feel like she is being pestered.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com