my g/friend of 5 years has been acting shady for about three months

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my g/friend of 5 years has been acting shady for about three months. she's very distant and wants to go out all the time with her "friends", including this one guy who she works with, and i am not to happy about it. but anyway, she cheated on me two and 1/2 years ago with someone from her work, got genital herpes, and ended up giving it to me. i finally got rid of them, but she still has them, i use condoms everytime. but just this past weekend, i found birth control pills in her car console. they weren't there a week ago. she says they were under her seat and is not taking them. and i know they weren't in her car bacause i detail her car all the time and always pray i don't find something like that. but i caught her off guard, she thought i was still driving home from vacation. but anyway, she says she's not taking them nor sleeping with anyone else, but why would they be in her car after three years? is it true that taking like 5 of them at once like taking the morning after pill? please help me figure this out. i'm losing my mind. Advice
My gut reaction is that she is cheating on you and giving some other guy genital herpes too.

As far as taking five pills at once.... NO it isn't the same as the morning after pill at all.

You didn't mention whether the pills were unopened or not. But, in any case you know they weren't in the car before. So she is hiding something.

It's time for a long honest talk with her and find out what's going on.

Good luck!

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