my ex and I'm just wondering on what to do in order to get her back

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Hi there,

I reecently sent in a question about my ex and I'm just wondering on what to do in order to get her back. I've finally come to the realization that we are friends and we've improved a great deal. She slipped a couple of times and called me honey and we're only friends. When I slipped and called her an old name, she was like ,What? Like she don'tlike it!! Also, she emphasizes the fact that we're friends when its not even necessary. She says she is going to stop doing this and that, but continues to do them with ME.. For example, sleep with me, she stills allow me to lay iin her bed, go out and even flirt wih me a little bit. All the things we did when we were together, they're still happening. So what seems to be the problem here? Advice
I answered your previous question and I hope you got it.

I will copy it below.

But first, my advice is to give her time. She seems to be acting like she is moving back toward you. So don't do anything dumb to mess it up. There is something about you that attracts her and that is why my last answer said what it did. Here it is again:

What does she find attractive about you?

Think very, very hard about this and come up with at least 10 characteristics that you know she likes... for example, loyalty, friendship, mutual attraction,

Then think about what she doesn't find attractive about you. Come up with 10 characteristics... for example, dishonesty, bad hygiene, lazy.

Work as hard as you can to build up the 10 positive things and work equally as hard eliminating the negative things.

Be serious about this... it may be the only way you can get her back. It takes a lot of strength to do this so be prepared for a battle with yourself.

This will take hard, hard work but the outcome has good potential.

Best wishes!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at

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