theres this guy I like...well I have a crush on him, no biggy. umm..but one day
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Okay..well..heres my situation. theres this guy I like...well I have a crush on him, no biggy. umm..but one day he told me I was hot and that he needed to find a gf and I told him I wanted a bf. so he caled me that night and we talked and hes like I want to hang out with you sooooooooooooooooo bad! and im like yea ditto. but now when I call him im like dude I wanna hang out with you and he geos well idk what im doing this weekend. and our convo's dont last for more than like 5 minutes. Idk what his deal is. what should I do?
Apparently he doesn't know how to carry on a conversation.
Work with him on that problem because it's hurting your relationship and will hamper him for the rest of his life if he doesn't get over it.
Have some topics saved up for discussion. Ask him how he feels about something he is interested in and persist in questioning and eventually he will start to open up. Try it on another topic then.
You might even want to tell him that your conversations are too short and you want to make them longer and ask if he has any ideas.
Progess may be slow so expect an uphill battle.
-- from George
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