when i hold her i feel like she doesnt want to
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i donno what to do ..i try so hard t obe with her and when i have the time ( i go to school and work) and when im with her ..when i hold her i feel like she doesnt want to ...example ..i was a party and we were in the pool and i was holding her like from behind and its like i got no responce what so ever ..and afterwards i asked her and she said her friend was pulling her away and stuff ..which can be possible plz help me
Pose the question to her in a general way.
For example, you could say "generally speaking I don't get the feeling that you want me to hold you."
Depending on how she answers, you can go from there.
I think the pool incident is not a very good example because she may be shy in public, or the position may have been too close for her.
Talking with your partner in an open and friendly way is the best way to get to the bottom of most problems and is a necessity for a good relationship.
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