my boyfriend is much more mature than i am
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
my boyfriend is much more mature than iam.and he is going through a bad phase.the problem here is that i dont understand him so well.he feels i m not able to support him in his times of need.and he is also very possesive about me. he is very sensitive.and gets hurt easily.and once i hurt him i have a real tough time patching up.saying sorry does not help at all.how else can i pamper him n patch up with him?
On the contrary, YOU seem more mature than your boyfriend. He is the one with problems, not you.
His problems are neediness, possessiveness, gets hurt easily. You seem to be mature in your ability to analyze the situation.
The key to solving his problems is to talk about them. This is a primary form of support and consideration. Make sure your conversations are deep, meaninfgul, trusting, caring, and friendly. Try to get to the root of what's hurting him. It won't be easy because my guess is that he won't be able to open up. But keep trying!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com