So I hope he is interested in me and not just being a big flirt.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Alright, well i met this a guy a few months ago. He lives like 20 minutes away from me so we instant message. I really like him and have talked to him a couple times in person but we've never really "hung out."Just the other day he told me he had a six-pack and he always talks about how he's good at sports and he says i always make him laugh, and he always jokes around with me and calls me a dork. So I hope he is interested in me and not just being a big flirt.
And I was kind of wondering if i should tell him that i think he's attractive ( and by that I mean tell him he's hot) or if i should ask him to hang out first? I'm scared i mite scare him off by telling him. But ne way please help me, i would really appreciate it. Thanks a million!
Be sure to let him know you are attracted to him. Most people find that flattering. Wait to see what his reaction is and if it is positive, then ask him out.
You've got plenty going for you since you communicate already and have a good relationship.
-- from George
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