Me and my "FRIEND" have been broken up for about 1yr now and we've been going through some stuff
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Whats going on? Me and my"FRIEND" have been broken up for about 1yr now and we've been through some stuff. She told me that she was tired of my arguing and also a std was involved. Even through that situation, we still tried to make it work. Now the std was prior to her and I didn't even know it. We've been together for 1yr6mnths. I guess by me not being able to actually except the break up made it worst.
We still been trying to make things better, but end up going back in circles. If she didn't want to be with me she would have left already, right? We still talk on the phone, go out and on top of that have sex. I know that some of it is because of me and I can live with that. By her sticking around, that tells me a whole lot. Oh yeah, she also has a 1 1/2 yr. old girl who looks up to me and calls me dah dah. I've been there all of her life. I love this girl very much and I just think that she is confused due to school, work and baby. Does it seem like there is a chance for us getting back together? She says that she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. I think shes just confused. She still slips and calles me honey and still demands certain things from me. How can I get her to come back to me?
What does she find attractive about you?
Think very, very hard about this and come up with at least 10 characteristics that you know she likes... for example, loyalty, friendship, mutual attraction,
Then think about what she doesn't find attractive about you. Come up with 10 characteristics... for example, dishonesty, bad hygiene, lazy.
Work as hard as you can to build up the 10 positive things and work equally as hard eliminating the negative things.
Be serious about this... it may be the only way you can get her back. It takes a lot of strength to do this so be prepared for a battle with yourself.
This will take hard, hard work but the outcome has good potential.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com