Its been about a month and a half since she broke up with me and started seeing some new guy
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
my girlfriend of 3 years has had a rough life medically speaking, and i have always been there and tried to support her through it all, around christmas she had to start taking some herbal meds. and shortly after her personallity and behavior began to change. Its been about a month and a half since she broke up with me and started seeing some new guy, who is 6 years older then her, it just doesnt add up, she was always the one that said we were forever and all that stuff. She hardly knows this guy and is already living with him, i dont know what to do to get her back, and make her see what a huge mistake she is making. She is only 19 and living with a 25 year old, and he has told me she still loves me and cares about me, but she cares about this new guy now.....im so torn on what to do here...any advice would be great
Continue to talk with her and let her know that you still love her and want her back.
This, of course, assumes that you do want her back. If so, be pleasant with her and remain open to a renewed relationship.
If your question concerns letting her go. That will be a hard choice. You will have to go into your feelings and let them tell you what to do. Ask yourself whether you still love her, how long can you wait for her, and set deadlines for yourself. Start dating again to see how that feels.
-- from George
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