our mutual friends say he's never acted this way about a girl b4
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
theres this really hot, funny, etc, yet arrogant guy that i like. b4 i met him i knew thru mutual friends how much of a womaniser her is, how he sleeps with ne1, and how girls just open thier legs for him cuz he's so hot. i met him and we made out at a party. i thot it was just a drunken thing, but then he started flirting with me, txting constantly and we wud talk till midnight. we've made out since then, but i'm not sure whether or not he's just doing this till he sleeps with me and then he'll leave. we're not a couple, but we hav been on wat seem like "dates". our mutual friends say he's never acted this way about a girl b4. but i dont no if theyre right, and he's very hot and cold. how can i find out if he likes me without having to ask him? im 16 and he's 19.
Believe what you have heard about him.
If a lot of people are saying he is no good, they are probably right.
If you really want to know what he is thinking... ask him. Be brave and tell him what you have heard about him and you wonder whether that is what he is doing with you. He will say no, of course.
Judge him by what he is doing not what he says. But keep up the conversation and see if you can trust and respect him. If after a lot of talking and given enough time, you may be able to safely accept him as being a good person that you want to spend time with.
-- from George
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