a few days ago he broke up with me for no reason at all.

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I am completely in love with my ex-boyfriend. a few days ago he broke up with me for no reason at all. he refused to talk to me or meet with me to give me my stuff back. after being ignored i went to his house and actually let myself in like a crazy person. i called him all the time the first two days after we broke up and professed my love and my feeling toward him but he never called me back. a couple days after our break-up i go over and pick up my stuff and emtionally break down agian but cut back on the phone calls after he made it perfectly clear he had no interest. now that days have passed he has been calling seeing how work is and telling me to be careful when i go out with friends or just to chat. i love talking to him but it makes it so much harder to move on with my life now that he reminds me everyday that he is still there. and one wierd thing is the day before we broke up he told me i meant everything to him and he loved me but what is his problem? did his mind change over night, will we get back together?

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Just hang in there, the signs are that he may be coming back to you.

Try to gently find out what made him break up with you... is there another girl?

Continue your friendship in hopes that conversation will draw you back together. Gradually increase the meaningfulness of the talks so that you will build up again those feelings of respect, attractiveness, etc.

Good luck!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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