just today i whispered in his ear that i love him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi again.i emailed not to long ago about me dating a guy that is 3 years older than me and i'm 14, and i wasn't sure if it was love.i got another question to that. just today i whispered in his ear that i love him,and he said the same.i dated other guys and told them that i love them but not quite the love..,love, i didn't really mean it when i told them that (i didn't know that till now)the other guys it just felt like 3 words that i just said. when i told my boyfriend that today it really felt good and this time it actully felt like i really meant it, it wasn't like just saying 3 words,i really thought about it and meant it, but my one friend doesn't belive that i can be in-love with him she thinks it's a kind of puppy love, but i don't! it really feel's like he's part of me!i'm usually a shy girl but around him i'm not.i really love him so so so much! there's not one thing that i would change about him, not even he's age!another thing is that he's not a virgin, that's the thing. i know he won't try any moves on me (well from what i know), because he really loves me and cares for me.and "IF" he does think of gettin any further in the relationship then what do i do? AND can i really be in-love, or is it just a puppy love!?
At age 14 it is probably puppy love.
But I will still warn you that sexual activity between you and your boyfriend is almost certainly illegal and he could be jailed. Ask your school nurse to be sure. So that's your answer to if he wants to go in that direction.
Take it slow, don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing.
-- from George
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