i dont know whether to ask her out because if she says no i will fell really stupid
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Im a 15 year old guy and there is this girl (also 15) I really fancy and I always think about her. We see each other all the time and were friends when we were younger but have only mee up again in the last few months. I have no problems talking to her and she is really nice to me and we always joke and stuff. I dont know if she fancies me though and i dont know whether to ask her out because if she says no i will fell really stupid. Can you please help me?
thanx from Jonny
Don't be afraid of feeling stupid.
We all feel stupid, sometimes every week. And, in your case imagine how stupid you would feel if you didn't ask her out and she would have said yes.
You are lucky that you already are friends. Sometime when you are alone say that you are "developing feelings" for her. If she says something positive then you can easily ask her out. Even if she doesn't reply positively, you can still ask if you can go out on a date as a friend. Sooner or later she will start developing feelings for you.
Hope this all works out well for you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com