i wanted to see him the other night and just so i wouldn't come over he hid his car somewhere and now he won't answer my phone calls.Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 6 years. i cheated on him, but the guy meant nothing to me. my boyfriend asks me questions about what went on and i tell him, but once i tell him he tells me that i am lying and yells at me. he has now thrown me out of the house and still continues to argue with me. he tells me that he needs space and no stress right now.
i try and call him, but sometimes he won't answer my calls. i see him sometimes at night to watch some tv with him, but always tells me that i have to leave because his mother will get upset. he is 47 and i am 24, but the age has never bothered us.
i don't know if he is acting for his mother, (who is staying in his home until her house is built) or if he really wants to break it off. I do love him and want to stay with him and am willing to do anything to stay with him, but i don't know what to do.
i wanted to see him the other night and just so i wouldn't come over he hid his car somewhere and now he won't answer my phone calls.
what do i do? Please help...he says he still cares for me and still loves me and I know that I still love him and want to be with him, but i just don't know what to do.
Stay friends with him and don't push him too much.
He has his mother there, he doesn't want stress, and you cheated on him, and then there's the age difference.
Since he says he loves you you have a good chance of getting back together. Just keep it low keyed for now. Give him some space.
-- from George
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