me and my boyfriend fight all the time
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hey. i have a question. me and my boyfriend fight all the time. like everyday nd i end up hurt in the end. i am a very sensitive person. i was at this web site and i read the other advice you gave the other people who have problems like mine. and i tried it. but something is different about him. he was insulting me. it made me so sad. i dont know how to get him to show me love like he used to? how do u get him to fall back in love? i want him to want me more than anything. but instead he always tells me i can do better and to leave him. but i always say back, "no, i love you and i will never ever leave, we were made for each other" i just think he is in doubt with me, he is giving up so easily. before he told me that we fight cause we love each other. now he changes his mind and said that wat we have is not wat he wants. he has these changes of mind. and i just wanna stop it all and make him want me. i am tired of crying all the time. how do i fix these problems? please help
Whenever anyone tells me they are fighting all the time with their boy/girlfriend I tell them the same thing.
You stop the fighting and it will be over. The way to stop is to agree with him and tell him he is right. There will be time later for gentle discussion using tenderness, respect and honesty to try to sort out the real problems.
Most fights are over stupid things anyway so give it a try.
Perhaps this strategy will make him look at things differently. I hope so!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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Confront situations head on
You deserve respect