My girlfriend of a year and a half thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm really not
Visitor's Question from a 51-60 year old Male
My problem began a couple of days ago. My girlfriend of a year and a half thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm really not. The problem is that she has talked to my very vindictive and sneaky ex-girlfriend. I don't know what my ex-girlfriend said to her but whatever she said has made my girlfriend break up with me and now she wont ever tell me whats wrong nor will she listen to me or give me the opportunity to address the issue. We are supposed to be leaving in a couple of days for a one week cruise to the U.S. Virgin Islands. I paid for the trip but since she is the one who actually made the reservation she's telling me that she called the travel agent and requested that they change the my name on the itenirary to someone elses name and that if I make the flight on Sunday, It will be a waste of my time because I no longer have a boarding pass. Today is Thursday, May 12th and I've been trying to talk to her since yesterday and she refuses. Our trip is scheduled for this coming Sunday, May 15th. Should I just walk away and cut my losses or should I be patient and keep trying to communicate?
The time for action is now. Don't be patient, you need to talk to her asap and explain how your ex is lying.
I don't believe that the name can be changed after the tickets are issued, you might want to double check that. If she really refuses to go with you then you should get the tickets from her so you can go (if that's what you want to do).
If she won't talk to you on the phone, go to where she lives and try there.
If you want the tickets bad enough call the police. If necessary, call the travel agency and get them to verify that it was your credit card used.
I hope one of these ideas is useful to you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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