and please. dont say that we should break up cause he is the one i know it

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ok, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months now. about 2 months ago he was using myspace and he was telling a gurl who he didnt even know that he was going to leave me if i didnt give him sex. wen i found out about this i confronted him. and he said he didnt mean it. that he was just playing around. i thought i could get over it. but i cant. now i constantly fight with him for it. i gave him my myspace password only if he would give me his. but everytime i check his myspace i find that his password is changed. i dont get why me and him fight about it. i asked him if we could stop myspace for a month or two and he said "NO!!" i dont understand. i cry almost everyday. he sais the meanest things. i just dont get why we have to argue. can you please help me? wen he is mad he will say the most horrible things ever. it just breaks my heart in two. he used to be so different. he used to say "i love you" just out of no where. he used to sound so happy wen i caled. but now its all different. i dont know wat to do. please help. and please. dont say that we should break up cause he is the one i know it. i just need some help. Advice
If you don't want to break up with him, you need to change your ways.

First of all, stop complaining about anything that happened on myspace. Everyone says things that they really don't mean just to get a rise out of somebody else.

Second, let him do his thing on myspace and stop trying to get him to quit it.

Doing these two things will be hard and won't solve all your problems, but it is my advice because I think you are backing him into a corner and nobody likes that.

If you can't control your emotions then you will have to think about splitting up with him.

Good luck!

-- from George
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