i realy need help on trusting this guy i have been with for over a year now
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i realy need help on trusting this guy i have been with for over a year now,it happend along time ago and not long into the relationship him and a close mate kissed,i cant seem to get over it,he was the one that was sorry, she didnt bother, the thing is i keep bringing it up all the time and get myself into a bad state.I can tell its breaking us up!i really love him but i done know wat to do.
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If you can't forget his mistake then there is little hope for your relationship.
Every time the thought of it comes into your mind, tell it to go away and that it doesn't matter anymore. Thoughts will disappear if you reject them often enough.
Otherwise, you will have a jealousy habit and this is a very difficult habit to break. Make sure you do not bring up this subject with your boyfriend ever again.
Also, please read our tips on jealousy at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com