Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I submitted a question to you the other day. The problem I have is that my ex got a girl pregnant when we were separated. We eventually got a divorce. He is still with this girl and they have a 3 year old son. About 6 months after our divorce we had a sexual relationship for about 3 months. I ended it because he was still with this girl. They still havent got married and so I thought there was a chance we could work on getting back together. So I called him and told him that I still loved him and missed him. He told me he would like to talk later about this but he hasnt said anything as of yet. I am really confused and I have tried to get on without him. I really feel I want him back but Im not sure the feelings are mutual. My question is should I wait and hope he will come to me or should I just let it go because there's no hope since he is still with her?
I already answered this but here it is again:
Definitely move on.
Let him know that you plan on doing this just in case he want to be with you. But, other than that, you are fighting a losing battle when your ex is with a women who is pregnant with his child.
Hope things turn out well for you.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com