i doont know if she likes me or or if she is looking
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i am a 20 yr old guy, aand i have a best friend who is 3 months younger then me. my mom drove bus back and fourth to school, and he was on my van with me. he has a sister who is 3-years younger then me, i knew her since i was in 4th grade, i always thought she was a cutie back then, and she became like a little sister to me, i stick up for her and everything. lately though i felt more for her, but i dont know if she feels the same way towards me. i think she knows but we go to the same church, and she always gives me hugs in the morning, but i can't tell if its just like a sister giveing a good brother a hug, or a "hey, I want you hug". but the friends that know i like her, think her and i would make a good couple, they think i should tell her how i feel, but one of my lady friends know about feelings and i gonna talk to her, about what she thinks. but if you can, can you tell me how to destinguse her real feelings for me. well she did have a boyfriend but they broke up and i doont know if she likes me or or if she is looking, im just wondering if she just makes me think she likes me, because im in a wheelchair, or if her feelings grew for me too. can you pleas help me, i never had a girl before, and i don't want to mess up our friendship, because she means the world to me but i dont know how to let her know that, and i can tell feelings but not love feeling. help please
The best way to find out is to go to the source-- the girl.
Tell her you don't want to jeopardize your friendship but that you have started to develop feelings for her and ask her how she feels. If she says no, don't make a big deal about it or she might feel uncomfortable. Just say you understand. Then make sure your friendship is still solid by continuing to talk with her. For example, if she doesn't give you a hug just smile and say "Hey where is my hug?"
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