The good thing is; he didnít throw out my picture yet but does that truly mean something?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I am experiencing true love which isnít too pretty. I have met someone and I really cared about him and thought he cared also. I called him a couple of times and met him. He told me he cared about me but I wanted to know if that was true so I decided to ask his friends.
His friends told me how much he hates me and how he cant stand when my name is mentioned. So I went to his house and asked if that was true. He told me he did not know what his friends told me and who they are but he cares about me and he doesnít like any girl except for me.
I believed all the lies. We kissed a couple of times and one day I came up to him and asked him where our relationship is going because I didnít want to think of him as my boyfriend when he really isnít. The answer he gave me shocked me completely. He said he wants to be just friends and all those times we kissed was nothing but a friend or a brother and sister kiss to him.
Now I donít know what to do. I still care about him yet hate him for all the lies. I guess his friends were saying the truth but I donít really care. I care about him so much that I still want him back even though he put me through so much pain. Oh, wait that isnít the whole story. Guess what? This was his SECOND chance. He blew his first chance and now the second. The story is longer but I made it as short as i could.
Please help me. Tell me you advice and you point of view. Is there any chance he cares about me? The good thing is; he didnít throw out my picture yet but does that truly mean something?
Please answer as soon as possible
You are dealing with a very immature fellow.
You shouldn't waste any more time on him no matter how much you like him. You don't want to be associated with someone who treats you so poorly and lies to you. This might become a habit and you could end up marrying someone like that and that would be terrible.
Thank your lucky stars you came out of this with not too many scars.
Now the fun part... think of all the other nicer boys there are waiting for you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com