I love him and would spend my life with him. I can't stand my life without him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ok, so i am 26 and he is 31, we were dating for about 5 months when out of the blue he broke up with me because he didn't want to hurt me, then after not calling him for a few days (about 2), he calls me to come over and talk, says he doesn't want me to wait for him till he is ready for a relationship but he hopes that i do. We get back together and everything is fine. Now, its 9 months into the relationship and he was sick and my phone was not working so i stopped by his place and i woke him up. He now breaks up with me again, says the one thing he has always asked was to not ever wake him up. Now i can't even call him more then once in one day and he yells at me, he comes over once a week, talks about people asking if we are still together and him going on saying no and why, then telling me he doesn't give people second chances and all. Why is he calling me and coming over then? I love him so much and want him back but i am at the end of the rope with things to do. We both were in a long relationship, engaged, and both broke things off with the other way over a year ago. I love him and would spend my life with him. I can't stand my life without him. HELP!!!!
There is no magic way to get an ex back.
The best you can do is to stay good friends with him and hope that time cures the problems. He obviously cares about you enough to come over and talk with you. Encourage him in doing that and who knows what might develop.
Hope this helps a little!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com