sometimes i fantasize about him but he is like an uncle to me...so what should i or can i do?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hello i am a 16 year old high school student female..my mother has no brothers or sisters so usually when she becomes really really close friends with someone they are like her brothers and sisters...ok...she made a really close female friend that she now considers her sister this woman has a younger brother who is about 33 at the most, he sometimes spends the night over our house because he wants to get away you know have breathing space from his sister whoms he lives with, one night he spent the night and we had a really personal and deep conversation we started to hang out with each other alot and now we are really close..we have known each other for over 1/2 a year and i think iam in love with him..what should i do, sometimes i fantasize about him but he is like an uncle to me...so what should i or can i do?

RomanceClass.com Advice
16 and 32 are not going to work no matter how you cut it.

You need to control your feelings and find a boyfriend your own age. Make that a priority rather than fantasizing about this older man. It is tempting to do so, but it is not going to work out for you.

If you need help talk to your school psychologist.

Good luck!
George

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