I already stopped feeling hurt and bewildered to the point where i am numb
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
He called after the weekend incident. He wants to spend time with me. He said I have a code if I say "Hello" like I can not hear you then his girlfriend is around and we can not talk. I said that is shady and creepy. He said she will try to listen in. I said well I would not do that . It seems that you two have a dysfunctional relationship. He said she said has friends and as long as I feel likee #1 I trust her. Is it just me or or they dysfunctional? I don't want any part of this in a secure realtionship two people do not need to lie about friends. I am starting to believe both of them or like he is. Just dysfunctional. He said he cannot stay away from me cause he is attractive to me. I think he needs to not be in a realtionship until he fixes his problems, because although he is in relationships long for many years they never go anywhere. He said he has a hard time committing. I want more, deeper. Am I right he is not that person for deepeness? It's dysfunctional. I already stopped feeling hurt and bewildered to the point where i am numb. I don't care. He obviously is not catch. She is trying to track his every move. i deserve better than that. What are your thoughts?
You have analyzed the situation perfectly.
Tell him you don't want to hear from him again until he is free of other entanglements and understands himself better.
You will be doing yourself a favor, that's for sure!
-- from George
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