I am a very jealous person

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I am a very jealous person, i've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and i still cant control it, i literally get so hurt at the thought of him talking to any other girl its defintely out of control and i want to fix it but i dont know what to do its so hard.

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Jealousy is a nasty habit and can ruin a relationship.

You need to get the upper hand. To do this, have something ready to say to the jealous feeling when it arises. For example, when a jealous thought enters your mind, say to it "My boyfriend loves me and I don't need to feel jealous about it." Keep doing this until the jealous thoughts finally give up trying when they realize that you are no longer listening to them.

See also our tips on jealousy at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682

Good luck!

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