I am so scared that if i let her go now she wont come back to me later.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My GF and I have been dating for a little over a year now. Things were perfect to begin with but recently it seems something is missing in our relationship. We fight more often now and we can't seem to figure out what it is that is missing in our relationship. We graduate from high school in a few weeks and we thought it might be best to take a break from each other for the summertime before we go off to college together in the fall. We both love each other deeply and have plans to get back together later on we just think a break might do us some good and give us a little room to breath. I am just scared that she is going to find someone else while we are on the break. I think we should set up a "no seeing anyone else rule" while we are on this break but she doesn't seem to agree with that. I am so scared that if i let her go now she wont come back to me later.
If you two decide to take a break then finding someone else is always possible.
That's the risk you take when you agree to a break. In fact, very often one or the other of the couple is tired of the relationship and wants to find someone else. So you are wise to worry.
As far as the fighting: try agreeing with her whenever an argument springs up. This will make her so happy that the argument will go away.
Hope this works out for you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com