I fight with my boyfriend alot
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi, I dont know if this type of question might have been in the categories already because there are too many to check. Though this might sound repetitive, I fight with my boyfriend alot. Ive been with him for about 4 years and 4 months. We started going out at 16 and now we are 20. I dont know what to do anymore. We treat each other really bad at times, but then keep being with each other as nothing has happened. It's unhealthy. Sometimes I dont know if what we still have is love. What do can I do? I know you cant possibly tell me how to live my life, but I dont speak about these matters with anyone, only now am I seeking some type of advice. Thanks...
Two things to try:
agree with whatever he says. He will be so shocked and pleased he might start agreeing with you.
tell him "I don't feel like arguing right now." and move to a different subject.
Hope this helps!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com