She's a threat to me and I really want her out of my life
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Well I haven't talked to my ex for awhile trying to clear things up. I still always had feelings for him. Well suddenly out of the blue he e-mails me telling me he misses me and that I was the only one who he could say anything about his feelings. And I'm deeply confused cause awhile ago I told him how much I missed him and I was depressed about everything. And he was confused and didn't know what to say. He said it's not easy. So I took it that maybe I should just give up on him. Well I tried to by not communicating as much. Until he e-mailed me out of the blue. Now this just makes me confused even more...
Oh and another problem is that my friend isn't too fond of him now since he dumped me. So they assumed he was a jerk for doing that and have every resentment. But I think that he at that time he made me happy and I don't want anyone having the wrong impression of him. Well I wanted to invite him to my birthday and my "friend" said that she tolder her bf about our situation. And her bf would threaten to beat him up if he came. FIRST of all I'm not even fond of her bf whatsoever. I actually despise him. Second I'm not even fond of my friend anymore cause she's so unstable and I really don't trust her. I think it's none of their business to meddle in my personal life. My whole family even thinks I should stay away from her. It's just so difficult cause she's so needy and persistent. She calls or tries to contact me. My brothers always give me the phone whenever she calls even though I explained to tell them I'm not here. She's a threat to me and I really want her out of my life.
Invite your boyfriend to your party.
Don't invite your friend or her boyfriend.
If you don't think this will work then change your birthday plans.
Tell your so called friend that she and especially her boyfriend would be doing you a great favor by allowing you to live your own life the way you want to.
Best wishes to you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com