Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
It's hard for me to be myself around guys I like, in fact it's hard for me to be myself around anyone really because I don't know who the real me is. I guess I just change into the person I think they will like, I know this is an aweful shallow thing to do and that I should just be myself but I can't. Will a guy ever like me for just being myself? From what I see they only seem to go for the girls who are skinny, large chested, tanned, bloneds that will do anything that are easy. I really want a boyfriend, but nobody ever seems to like me in that way, I don't know what's wrong with me. I thought that it could be because I'm really short for 15 I'm 4"10. Guys may have liked me in the past but they never say anything to me about it, but there always just seems to be someone out there that is better than me, sure I'm good but there are so many others that are great. How do I stick out to guys without acting like someone else?
There are many, many guys who are in the same boat as you are.
Look around carefully and find guys who are shy and by themselves. They need someone just like you to cheer them up. You will have a lot to pick from.
Sometimes they sit in the back of the class so maybe you should sit back there where you can see the whole classroom.
Once you have some choices picked out, find out their names and always say hi with a big smile when you see them in the hallway. After that, ask them how they are doing. Gradually you will have a group of boys that are interested in you and will ask you out or you can ask them out.
Look for short guys! They especially will appreciate your attention since they are shy about their height.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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