He was busted
Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
my husband and i have been married for ten years i didnt know him for very long when we got married. he has a pass of beening a womenizer. There is no women he doesnt check out when were out in public and i do mean check out, he tells me its all in my head, My he makes it very noticeably so i dont think so. Last year he was cheating on me with somebody he nevers amdits to anything,so i never caught him,but i did ease drop on him and a friend having a conversation about her. and 1 day he came home from work late ,and that same day i was dooing laundry and found freshly stain underwear in his dirty clothes, Iam not stupid i know what that stuff looks like .He denied it of course, but deep down he new he was busted. I almost left him, but he talked me into staying. TO this day i still trust him and i still feel something is going on. we never have sex. he says he tired and he always been a very sexually guy. ther are also other things i caught him doing which i wont go into to. SO as o now i still dont what to think of him.or what to do about it. I just know i would to be sure that hes beening sincere, any ideas on how i can find out.
help i need to know.
You hit the button on the head when you said he was "busted."
You know what he is and don't deceive yourself.
The best thing to do now is to go to a marriage counselor and see if you can get some assistance there.
Sorry you are in this situation!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com