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im kinda hanging out with this guy, we have been hanging out and been intimate with eachother on and off for almost 2 years, we will keep in touch for a while, then we wont see or talk to each other for a while.But the thing is when we started hanging out we were both in long term relationships with other people, i know all about his relationship with his on again off agian girlfriend. He tells me all his problems with her, and he knew all the problems i was going through with my now ex-boyfriend i've been single for about 10 months and he's the only person i've been seeing this whole time. we have never talked about taking it to the next level it's always been no stings attached since when we started hanging out we were both taken. his girlfriend or whatever you want to call her is around then shes not. so how would i go about asking him what the deal is with them, and letting him know that i would like something a litle more serious with him.Please help! Advice
If you are ever going to have a closer relationship with him, it should begin with communication.

So the answer to your question is to talk to him and ask him what's going on with this other girl and let him know that you are interested in going to the next level with him.

Neither of these questions are earth-shaking so he should be able to handle them. If not, you might begin to wonder whether you want to be with him anyway.

Good luck!

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