Afraid of getting hurt again
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi my names rich i have been on this before. it has been about 1 month since we split up. i have been so depressed and so down it has been the worst time of my life and i realise that am only young and have the whole life ahead of me. the question is i don t want to talk to my ex anymore i still love her but it just makes me more depressed and i can t do with it anymore. she was the one who broke it off with me and she rang me saying she has never stopped loving me and i have miss calls on my phone from her. i do want her back but i am really scared on being hurt again and i can t cope with that again. what do you think i should do?
If you stop living part of your life every time you get hurt, pretty soon you will have a limited life experience... and we only get one time around with our lives.
So, my advice is to jump back into the water again knowing you could get hurt and in fact it is likely that you will get hurt unless you break off with her. Relationships at your age rarely last for a long time so you probably have a number of broken relationships in your future.
Unless you want to just opt out of living, my advice is to give her another chance.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com