Go for it
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I have known this lady for about 5 years. We have always been friendly but lately we both became available. I have been out of the game for a while and I am very insucure about women.
My question is we have always been friendly but lately i have begin to notice a difference.
She touches me more than usual but only on the back or arm.
She does not make I contact a lot though.
She does mimic some of my actions.
Compliments me when we are alone.
However when we are around other people she tends to be distant.
Does little things for me that other people would not normally do. Example help me with work for no reason. Except that she says that she likes to do it.
Smiles alot at me and looks over her shoulder as she walks away.
I have noticed her checking me out.
Also I tested her recently we were sitting during a work related event. I noticed that she was sorting looking at me but I could not tell. So I moved when she was not looking and watched her look up and around for me. Once she spotted me and looked away very quickly.
It is almost like that she does not want anyone to see her looking.
We can never seem to have a full conversation becouse she or I are always doing something.
She is a hottie but some what spoiled.
I think I may be reading to much into her flirting I am not sure.
Becouse we do work together I really need to be sure about her feelings. Becouse if I am wrong there will be some gossip going around and her mother works there to and that would not be good.
Please send help
Sleepless in P-town.
You and she are both grown ups. Obviously she likes you. All the signs are there.
What you need to do is ask her out for dinner or something. She is sure to say yes and voila you have something going.
Think of all the sad people who miss out on relationships simply because they are too shy to take the first step.
Be brave and go for it!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com