I need to get more courage
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok, there's this guy that i really like. i met him about 3 or 4 months ago, and i THINK he might like me, but i want a professional opinion. He's given me 3 hugs ( he gave me one, someone told him to hug me so he did, and the third one i started), also, when we were in a large group, he told some personal things, so im guessing he trusts me to keep them a secret, and when he talks to me, sometimes he will look into my eyes for a really long time. One time i was walking to my locker, and he was just leaving his, but he looked at me and then turned around and went back to his locker. I also sometimes see him sneeking glances at me, and when we talk he is always very nice to me. I was also going to watch him play sports, and i didn't tell him, i was just going to go, and some how he must have found out i was going, and he told me he wasn't going to play that night. I told him that i was going to the next game, and he didn't seem mad or anything, and he even asked me if he knew who they were playing. people have said that another guy told him i like him. I dont know if this is true or not. Im really confused because sometimes he acts like he likes me and other times he acts just normal. Do you think i have a chance with him, or that he even likes me? my friends all have differnt opinions, and i dont really talk to him a lot and i need to get more courage! THANKS!
My sense is that he does like you. The longer you wait, the more chance there is that some other girl will grab him up.
So don't delay. You know him well enough to ask him on a date. Or just casually mention to him that you are developing feelings for him.
YOU are going to have to do this because he seems too shy or backwards to do it. Remember: "Nothing ventured, nothing gained."
Good luck to you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com