Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Iíve liked this girl every since we were in the 12th grade. But what I failed to notice was that she liked me back in the 11th grade. During the summer in between I thought about her the whole time. Then when school started back up I was going to ask her out but I found out she had a boyfriend. Well a semester went by and then I found out that she had broken up with her boyfriend. So after a week or so I realized I still had incredible feelings for and I decided to give her a love letter via a friend and it told her how I felt. The next day she asked me what my last name was. I answered her. I donít think at the time she knew my last name but any I answered her and asked why pretending not know and she replied nothing with a smile. Well one day in the Cafeteria I swore she whispered did I really want to be her but at the same time friends were calling me and my head started to turn at the same time she started to whisper. Well after that it became more of a eye staring, sitting next to each other at lunch thing I gave her at least two more letters but really I never spoke to her in person about how I felt. Well we graduated class of 2004, and we had one finale distant stare at each which to me seemed like forever and after it was over we went our different ways. Well later that year while I was away at school my mom told me a nice girl had called and asked for me and she told her I was gone and would not be back for a while well when I found out I knew it had to be her since she was the only female I could think of who I gave my number back in one of those letters. Now that itís been 11 months since Iíve seen her and 4 months since she possibly called Iíve tried to move on but I still think of her. So I decided to do something about it and I did a expert people search and now I have her phone number and was wandering should I call her and just tell her how feel or should I even call? I guess Iím scared she going to say no or that she is involved with some else but in my heart I can just feel that she is still single. Iím not sure what to do.
The answer is easy. Call her!
You care for her and it is possible she cares for you. You wouldn't want to let that slip through your fingers.
Be prepared to start and continue the conversation. Have different things ready to say depending on what she says.
It is better to ask than to wonder.
-- from George
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