What should I do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have been going out with this girl for awhile and i fell in love with her. We fight all the time and everything and we both dont like it at all and it sometime feels that she doesnt really want to be with me. I just need help with this. So, i called her and we argued and stuff and i asked her if were still going out and she said no. But, she is having hard times with familey and other stuff and she said she didnt mean to break up with me... so i dont know what to do....what would you do??? Please answer me back... and tell me what to do...
If you are still in love with her then try to make it work out. If you have fallen out of love with her then you are going to have to decide for yourself.
The fighting habit should be killed quick. The way to do that is whenever you or she starts a fight then you should say "I don't feel like fighting right now, could we talk about this later?"
If she keeps on fighting then just agree with whatever she says no matter what. You will be surprised how astounded she is when you agree with her. By doing this, you are really winning the argument.
But winning arguments isn't a good part of a relationship. You should both be striving towards mutually and pleasantly resolving disagreements.
-- from George
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