Nice guys finish last?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Most of your answers are closely relative to the side of women so here's a question from a man who's been looking for answers but never got them! You remember the old adage "nice guys finish last" Why is it that women are searching for the bad guy types? It is sad to see such things take place in society these days. I have upheld the moral values that most men in this day age wouldn't. I am so very much in love with this 1 girl. But everytime I try to make a move to get closer someone else manages to jump in the way. Everytime I put in my time some other guy has to do it the cheap way. Let me explain I told this girl that I really liked her she knows it. Well she went out to a club with her friend and suddenly she ended up with another guy who she now is living with. The problem is now she is being treated like a house wife where the guy has now control of her. She is one of the types that has a free spirit. We do hang out together and the man doesn't like it I witnessed 1 night ago that the man has locked her out of house and home because we were out together. During 1 of the phone conversations the man used his daughter against her and I really don't like what he did what's worse is I get the feeling that she's planning to go back to him as much as I love her my heart is breaking? I have tried my best to keep it but it's starting to hurt. What can I do for a love that may be already doomed?
Ask 90% of women and they will tell you that nice guys DON'T finish last.
Just keep on being yourself and you will discover how many woman are attracted to you. It isn't easy to find someone with whom you can have a lasting, loving relationship. But, when you are a nice person you have a much greater chance.
Don't try to change yourself because of a few situations where you didn't get the girl. Pay close attention to those things that make for a good relationship. Some of these are: trust, respect, honesty, open communication, caring, reliability, mutual attraction, and others.
If you can strengthen the bonds you have with a woman in these areas, it won't be long before you find yourself in a loving relationship.
Wishing you luck!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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