Moving out into own apartment

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
The guy I've been seeing said nothing serious since he was new in town. Things have been going great for us for approx. 3mos, well I decided to finally move out from my parents into my own apartment and he was going to do the same just rent out a room. All the rooms he has seen he doesn't like for one reason or another, we both want to be out of our homes by the 1st and I already decided on an apartment and he says well now he isn't that much in a rush to move out because I have mine. I wouldn't mind sharing nights with him because I am falling for him but is he just saying he doesn't want anything serious because he may be afraid of getting hurt? I mean we'll go out and talk over dinner and he'll come out with something like if we were to get married would you family embrace me or chase, and last weekend we spent all day together at the zoo and after we drove around pretending to shop for houses, what do you think? Advice
It's hard to guess what's going on in his mind.

He seems to care enough about you to mention marriage and buying houses, but he hasn't specifically said he is serious about you.

My advice is to have a long, serious talk with him and ask him what he is thinking about. After three months, you two should be close enough to share your feelings and thoughts about important matters.

Why wonder when you can ask?

Good luck!

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